He has promised, many times, to do anything for you. The anything has never once been specified out loud, which was the whole problem. The card specifies it. He does it. The sealed treat opens for him.
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It's not therapy. Therapy makes you talk. This one gets the dishes done.
You ask for one specific thing. He does it. A treat opens. Then he asks you. It has fewer steps than the grill he insists is far too complicated for you to operate.
Pick a card from hundreds in the deck, or write your own, and send it. He gets the move, not the mood. No hinting, no managing, no asking twice.
Every ask carries a reward you choose for him. It stays sealed until the thing is done. He can see it. He can't open it yet. Go on, try him:
Sealed until he delivers
Unlocked. That feeling is the game.
He plays the move, the treat unlocks on his side, and you both feel it land. Then he sends a card to you, and you get to be the one who earns something.
Every move you send is one of these four. People expect a fifth, hidden, more complicated one. There isn't a fifth.
The specific thing you want, written down. The version where he infers it from your tone is being discontinued, citing a complete lack of results.
What he unlocks by actually doing it. You pick it, so for once the reward is priced by the person who knows what it's worth.
A question with no task attached. For starting something real without him assuming he's just been handed a project.
A bold claim either of you can just play. No build-up, no asking the room, no permission slip. You call it, it's called, and the other one honors it — that part isn't a discussion.
* One a year, each. He will try to argue the date quietly resets. It does not reset.
Your messages are encrypted end to end. Nobody can open them, not even us.
Your messages are locked. Even to us.
Messages, wishes, photos, videos and voice notes are end-to-end encrypted on your phone before they leave it. We store a locked copy we cannot open. To run the game we keep a few things without that lock: cards you write yourself, doodles, names, your profile photo, moods and Get Kinky habits, plus which card was played and when.
No ads in the app. Nothing sold.
We never sell your data. We count which features get used, never what you write. To learn which of our own ads work, install data goes to Meta through Singular. On iPhone, only if you say yes.
Delete it all from Settings.
Delete your account and your messages, moves and profile go at once, and leave our backups within a week. Email us and we clear the rest too, usage data included.
Download your.move and send your first ask tonight. He gets his own version of the app, made for his side of the game.
He does. You attach it to your ask, and it unlocks for him when he does the thing. The treat is what you're giving, which is exactly why it works.
The opposite. You stop being the nag and the narrator. The card is the ask — he responds to that, not to a mood you have to perform.
No. Chore apps make you feel guilty. This one makes him show up specifically. There is a difference.
Yes. It's a two-player game. One of you sends, the other plays. You invite him with one link from inside the app — he gets his own version, built for his side.
Only if you write it that way. The cards are dry, observed, sometimes funny. The point is to make small acts visible — not to keep score.
Free to start. your.move Plus, monthly or yearly, opens the whole deck for both of you. You see the price in the app before you pay.
